If cats could talk, what insights might they give us on the curious hidden world of felines? Here’s one perspective in the form of a fictional advice column from one wise Palmetto Animal League kitty.

DEAR PENNY PIE: I recently lost my cat of 20 years. I’m not sure if I’m ready for another pet, but I’m feeling a little lost. Can you help? — PAW SHAPED HOLE IN MY HEART

DEAR PAW SHAPED HOLE: I’m very sorry for your loss. When our friends go to the Rainbow Bridge, it leaves a mark. A great way to soothe your pain is to spend time at a local shelter playing with cats who need you. For some of these cats, your attention will be the highlight of their week! You may find that you’ll be “adopted” down the line, and when that happens, please don’t feel as though you’re replacing your lost family member. See it as honoring your pet’s memory by continuing to share your love.

– PURRS AND WHISKER KISSES, PENNY PIE

Penny Pie is right. When facing a huge void in your life after the passing of a beloved pet, sometimes the best thing to do… is find something to do. Zeroing in on a mission, like volunteering at a shelter, can help you focus on something other than your grief.

Sharing stories about your late pet may be painful at first, but it’s important to celebrate the special bond you shared. Other pets can be great listeners. Giving comfort is instinctual for animals, and resting in the presence of that kind of unconditional love offers immeasurable healing.

Be patient with and kind to yourself. Grieving happens gradually. While the circle of life may seem crushing at times, it also offers a promise that, over time, you will find new meaning and joy in life.

J.A. Weiss is a volunteer foster for Palmetto Animal League, specializing in special needs cats.

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